Should you put your baby on a schedule?
Comments(1) New parents often debate whether to try to put their baby on a schedule or to roll with a more, um, natural style of parenting. As it usually turns out, if there is at all a debate, the answer is usually to go with the schedule. Usually, the on-demand crowd is unaware of the wonders of The Schedule. Ignorance is far from bliss as it usually turns out.
The Schedule, when well-implemented, gives both parents and baby a daily rhythm that everyone can rely on. When baby cries, it’s easier to know whether it’s because of hunger, diaper or need for sleep. Over time, it’s likely that the baby may sooner sleep through the night, and have reliable nap times. Both are great for getting some adult time.
This is a highly personal choice, but we have some books to recommend if you are interested in trying to get your baby on a routine.
Gina Ford’s The Content Little Baby Book, lays out a rigid schedule from the early weeks into toddlerhood. Eventually, we found Ford’s agenda a little too strict. But in the early months, the recommended times for eating, napping and sleeping were very helpful. Particularly enlightening were tips to actually wake up the bambino when necessary to keep them on a regular schedule.
The Baby Whisperer takes less rigid approach. emphasis is on regular routine rather than activities at prescribed times. Author Tracy Hogg’s EASY acronym – eat, activity, sleep, your time – became a mantra to get us through many early days.
